Wednesday, February 1, 2012

What should I do????

My mom works in a flower that's part of a grocery chain, and during the summer she partially runs a garden type centre during the summers months. Now this guy that went to my high school works there too , and one day told my mom that he had remember me in school and that he wanted my MOM to set up a date! I kinda liked him before but I was a little weired out by it. And the thing is too if i do want to date him i have to tell my mom to tell him which is also kinda odd. So should I say yes or leave it????

What should I do????
It depends on if you really want to. If you would go out with him under different circumstances then do not hesitate under these circumstances. I say go for it!!!
Reply:You need to decide for yourself if you want to have a relationship with him or not and if you do, then rather than send messages through your mom (though that is how it got to you) you need to handle your business for yourself. Go to him and give him a response, let him know that you find him attractive and you would like to get to know him better. Once you two continue to send messages to eachother through your mom you would never get to know eachother well. So if you are interested, break the messaging chain-third wheel relationship that has already started and respond in person.
Reply:Give it a try, it's only a date, it's like youre marrying the guy. Hang out with him and talk to him and see how this guy is. Keep him as a friend for awhile even if you want, don't rush into anything if you don't like him.
Reply:dunno whatya shoud do but if u luv him kiss him he will feel good
Reply:just leave it.
Reply:What if instead of having your mom play the intermediary, she simply gives him your phone number?
Reply:every one needs a connection of some sort to go out with the person they wanna especially for the first time but your thing is different and it is like in this relationship with this guy your mom will have a big say so do you want to be in a relationship where your say matters after someone else's?
Reply:You should just go and see what happens!
Reply:Leave it and visit her @ work and wait for him to ask.
Reply:I agree with Isadora. Go for it, you have nothing to lose. It wouldn't hurt for him to ask you out either, maybe he is really shy.
Reply:if you want just say yes and if you dont want to just say no. dont do something if you dont like it.
Reply:That is kind of weird. It's up to you whether or not you date him. If you really like him, then go for it.



Personally, I would be mad because he went behind my back and asked my mom to ask me (like he thinks you're more likely to agree to it if your mother gets involved). I'd say no until he gets the balls enough to ask me himself instead of getting others involved, but that's just me...I get mad easily, especially if I think that someone's trying to be manipulative to get at me.
Reply:say YES!!! but tell him yourself dont have your mom do it for you maybe go to his work and tell him for yourself

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